Cross Roads in Life.

blog 6.4.14

Have you ever been at a cross roads in life? Some people have these crossroads when things are going terrible for them, and yet others like me recently, have experienced cross roads even though things are going really, really well.

My business Tammy’s Tarot and Healing was created just over 2 years ago (although I’ve been reading the cards for 20 years). The business has gone from strength to strength, and over that period of time I have completed different courses and added different modalities to my offerings. Now I can proudly say I offer:

  • Tarot readings
  • Reiki (regular and crystal)
  • Balinese Reflexology
  • Guided Meditations
  • Aura card reading
  • Plus courses in Reiki and Tarot Reading.

Life is good and awesome and I’m earning a full-time wage from doing what I love. How much better could life be? Yet for a few weeks I have been feeling as though I have more to offer, and I don’t quite know what that is. I feel there are better things ahead for me and I know I’ll need to drop a number of modalities to make way for this exciting new ‘stuff’ coming in. Goodness how on earth do I know this? I don’t know, apart from saying ‘I just know’ and it’s probably my Clair-cognisance ability. This is a KNOWING from within (extreme intuition) that lets you know (without outside stimuli) that something is fact. Well it’s a fact that I have more to offer -I’m yet to know what that something is; and yet I know without a shadow of a doubt that it will happen, something bigger is yet to come.

When organising my Reiki share nights and people were busy and couldn’t make it and some never respond to my invites, I began to think, is it the Reiki I needed to drop and let go of? Or is it the tarot reading? Or, is it the Reflexology? I didn’t know and I was becoming frustrated and allowing anxiety to creep into my life. That of course blocks all intuition and guidance from above.

Time to settle down and meditate! And that’s exactly what I did.

Well two days later, I have my answers. I am not to give up anything just yet – I’m to keep everything on offer as the timing isn’t quite right (all in Divine Timing). How do I know this? My answers came within a day of asking spirit and the universe for some direction, I had many separate and distinct enquiries about my Reiki courses (with a level one, now scheduled in for Sunday 13th April) plus a number of people interested in completing their Reiki Masters with me.

I’ve also been inundated with interstate clients from Queensland, Western Australia and New South Wales, all booked in for readings, and more scheduled for the coming weeks. A number of other wonderful things have occurred also, that made me realise I am on track and most definitely my strengths are Reiki and Tarot. We all go through moments of doubt, uncertainty and hesitation. This is normal. So please know, we all go through it.

In short this blog is all about trust. When you come to a cross roads, please say to yourself “I stop the stress, anxiety and uncertainty!” This helps to prevent it from creeping in. Please turn your attention to meditation and simply be guided to calmer state.

Ask the universe and spirit to help guide you and TRUST the answers will be available to you. My anguished call for assistance from ‘above’ was answered very, very quickly. Within a day or two I knew without a shadow of a doubt I am meant to be teaching Reiki and reading the cards on a local, national and international level. The other exciting stuff is yet to come and I’m sure when the time is right Spirit and the Universe will lead me in the right direction.

I received further clarification/direction from spirit with words of encouragement from my spiritual mentor:

“Who knows maybe you will teach other things such as spiritual development too, because you have the right approach with promoting self-acceptance, freedom and new thought rather than stagnating in the old rigid ways”:)


“That’s beautiful Tammy! I really believe you have so much to contribute to your area, you are very needed! Let us know how your workshop goes!”

Therefore cross roads are a good way for us to look over our lives, and view where we’ve been, where we are at and where we are going. They make us take stock of our lives and really and truly look at them and then find the right balance. I’m so grateful for the clarification I’ve received at this crossroad. I also feel it’s being ‘mindful’ and ‘open’ to what is going on around you so that you don’t miss opportunities or throw opportunities away.

Embrace your cross roads people!!! They surface for our continued growth.

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Love, light and harmony.


(Reiki and Tarot Master/Teacher)

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